Feel free to come and share your own personal insights sometime; the Saturday Night Video and Discussions here in Austin, Texas are a lot of fun and fascinating. (They're free, too.) Here are the questions the group came up with, based on the personal growth themes in the movie:
				
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- What makes me the most judgmental, and why?
 - When people make a mistake, what helps me realize that people are not perfect and give them some slack?
 - In what situations have I felt compassion, based on a similar experience?
 - How have I dealt with jealousy, mine or others?
 - How do I feel about the inequality shown to women?