Feel free to come and share your own personal insights sometime; the Saturday Night Video and Discussions here in Austin, Texas are a lot of fun and fascinating. (They're free, too.) Here are the questions the group came up with, based on the personal growth themes in the movie:
				
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- How much does memory play a part in who I am?
 - What do I feel possessive about and how much do I feel that?
 - When I have been disillusioned or lost a part of myself, how have I reconstructed it?
 - What have been the big decision/change points in my life?
 - How have my family's expectations affected my life?
 - What would I be like if I had been taught at a young age that life is going to present me with opportunities to reinvent myself multiple times?
 - What are the dynamics that went on in my family that affected how I am?
 - Where have I been all my life? And why did it take me so long to get here? I got it all together, but where did I put it? 
 - At what points in my life has something been so hard for me that I just chose to give up?